Top 10 reasons why men fall short of women, and our attempt to tell you how to avoid these dangerous pitfalls.ERROR 1: You do not need too much replay in the "good guy"
I guess you had already remarked that a truly beautiful woman is never attracted to such things are "good guys"? Of course, noticed.
Similarly, as we do, you have probably been pretty girlfriend interested in you, but, in fact, not adjusted to you romantically. What does this mean? It's very simple.
The fact that women do not base their choice on how "good" (cute, funny) guy. They choose the men, from which comes the inner power and strength. On the question Why? Already too much has been written.
In general, playing the "good guy" before a woman you will never make her feel your inner strength. And if you'll be "good" if you will assist and cooperate with a woman - it does not mean that a woman will choose you. Rather - on the contrary.
We understand that in this argument a little logic, but, nevertheless, take it as an objective reality. As long as you accept it as fact, you'll never have success with women.
Mistake 2: Do not try to convince her to love you
what makes the most of the guys when they communicate with their strongly attracts a woman who meets her coldness and indifference? Right! They are trying to persuade a woman to treat them differently.
Well, we've got news for you. You'll never make a woman COUNT YOU ATTRACTIVE IF SHE DOES NOT FEEL THAT ITSELF.
Never, never, never!
Think about it.
If a woman does not feel within you that she needs, then how are you going to change her opinion of you? No need to convince her, it will not take any logic or reasoning. However, for some reason we're all for it. Because we are men, and we think a more straightforward and open.
When women are not interested in us, we begin to beg, plead, chase, and do everything we can to make her change her mind. This is - a bad way. Not worth it to apply, for work he never will be.
Mistake 3: Do not keep an eye on her for support or endorsement
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly take to be a way to win their love), we guys are always doing things for which you are trying to get "approval" or "permission" of the woman.
Another horrible way.
Women are NEVER attracted to men who are literally trail before them.
Do not get us wrong.
You should not treat women badly, but if you think you have a good relationship means to your every act of obtaining the approval or permission from her to further action, in that case you need to reconsider their position. You never seek approval of their actions in a woman. In fact, women are guys are simply annoying. Doubt? Ask any beauty, familiar or unfamiliar.
Error 4: Attempting to "buy" her affection expensive treats and gifts
How many times is it that you drove a woman in expensive restaurants, buy her gifts and flowers, but for some reason she give you up and went to someone who did not make even half of what it did for you?
With us, it is also happening. And more than once.
What's the matter, you ask? The actions of women are quite reasonable and natural. Yes, exactly, of course.
In doing so, you would like to send her a message: "I do not think that you love just me, me, and this is who I am, so I'm Try to buy your attention and affection."
Your good intentions at first glance, women are regarded as a defensive response to your insecurities and thirst for attention, as well as a pathetic attempt to manipulate them.
ERROR 5: It is too early you're trying to show how you think about it
Another huge mistake a failure that makes most men to women is that the former are too slow to show women how they like them.
Rarely see an attractive woman. However, the women of this type receive much attention from men.
Most men do not understand this, do not realize that an attractive woman several times a day become objects of attention from men. Per day to fit it to meet several males, one week they recruited a few dozen, and a month - hundreds of them. Such women are often prescribed date. And they have experience, they know what to expect. There is one sure way to lower her interest in you and speed your parting. No woman does not like the guy on first and second date starts to load it, how much he loves her.
This sends a signal to women that you - one of those guys who are crazy about her and can not hold back his feelings, can not control myself.
Do not do it. It is better to lean back and relax. There is a way much better ...
ERROR 6: The attractiveness in the understanding of women - some are not what they think about this man
Women are VERY different from men regarding sex selectivity, and craving. You must accept this de facto and always keep that in mind.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But what happens in such cases in women?
Whether a woman feels sexual attraction to men based mostly on what she sees? Or something else has it impact?
Our long experience in studying intersexual relations allows us to say with certainty: women have their own "drive mechanisms, caused by some other incentives, in addition to the visual. Women more attracted to certain internal qualities in men, they are increasingly turning their attention inward of the senses in a society of individual men. And, if these feelings are pleasant and relaxed, the man likes a woman.
If you will be skillfully own body language, you can make any woman feel the same powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel and when you see a curvy, sexy young woman.
And it's not a chaotic event, it can be controlled. You should outline the plan of development in this direction. And we assure you that ANY guy can learn this ...
ERROR 7: Do not think that a woman is interested in only your looks and money
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is that they give up prematurely, when they have not even begun to fight. All this happens because of what they think, if beautiful women are interested only in those men who have money and good looks ... or those who have achieved in the lives of some of the heights ... or, for example, men of a certain age.
I'm sure there are, of course, and such women, but, fortunately, a minority. Most women are much more interested in individual men, not his wallet or his looks. Have individual character traits men that attract women like a magnet ...
And if you learn what kind of features and how to use them for yourself to enjoy, you can achieve a lot in relationships with women.
You do not have to "opt out" of women just because you're not rich, low, or ugly.
Once again, we repeat: If you will skillfully own body language, you can make any woman feel the same powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel and when you see a curvy, sexy young woman.
ERROR 8: Do not give all your energy for women
Previously, we have already seen this error in paragraph 3: "No need to constantly look at the women, seeking their support and encouragement." This error - some generalized version of the error 3.
Another similar tactic used by most of the guys is that they give all their energy to women.
In other words, the guys try to win the love of a woman doing everything she would ask. Moreover, in excessive quantities.
Another bad idea ...
Women never attracted to men who go with them on a leash ... Women are not attracted to rags!
ERROR 9: You really do not know how to deal with any situation with women
Now we are going some to question your assumptions ...
In fact, that women always know what you think. Women are about ten times better than men to read body language.
I know it's hard to believe. But, for example, you're on a date with a woman and want to kiss her - she knows about it. And if you do not exactly know what to do and how to kiss her, but just sitting there looking at her, and nervous, then it will not help you! Do not even try!
And so will in all situations. Will you have her phone number, if you kiss her, whether to invite to her home, she almost never will you help ... In any situation, you must act itself and should know for sure what to do. If you do not know what to do, you're guaranteed to do everything wrong and find yourself under the threat of all is lost.
And you know about this.
It is vital that you knew and counted each step with a woman who knew how to step by step ... from the very first meeting, bring it to the bedroom, did not make any fatal mistakes.
ERROR 10: Reluctance to get help from her
This - the biggest mistake of all the above.
This is - a mistake that prevents most men even expects to succeed with women who really like them.
I know guys do not like to look weak or helpless. We do not like to ask for help.
A man, yes, we ourselves were in this situation! Every man instinctively feels his desire to never tell a woman the words "I do not know," "fear," "doubt" and so on, each man ready to put on a lot not to lose a woman in any sport or any game of chance, and Finally, almost all men do not want and can not receive the attention and gifts from women. But it often hurts them.
Reading the body language of men, a woman finds that it is notorious, that he is ready to build around him all sorts of protective barriers, so as not to show their "weakness", its "dependence" on women, their ability to love and feel.
Such a man becomes closed, a nervous and irritable. The woman sees this, and this behavior she does not like. Internally, it understood that only the truly strong man is not ashamed to be who he really is. He does not need to defend and to hide his essence - he is confident, he seemed to inform the woman: "I am honest with you. I want you to be taken of the man who is inside me. If you can not do that, then I was mistaken in you, and we have different road. "